For 30 years, this day has been a celebration of the bravery and power of LGBTQ people who choose to live openly as their whole, true selves. October 11, 2018 marks the 30th anniversary of National Coming Out Day.

But this day is more than a celebration. It’s a recognition that our unapologetic existence is the best weapon against forces of intolerance that seek to erase us from public life. As more people learn that they have friends and family who are LGBTQ, public opinion moves inexorably in our favor. This familiarity is more valuable than any campaign, law or policy. Visibility and participation in our community is the leading driver of social change for LGBTQ people.

But coming out can be hard. And it can come at a cost.

For transgender people, we are more likely to experience joblessness, homelessness, harassment and discrimination in public places. Family rejection, particularly for transgender youth, is a pressing reality. By some housing provider estimates, LGBTQ youth make up nearly 40% of all homeless youth. And the primary driver of homelessness in LGBTQ youth is family rejection.

I paid, and am still paying, a steep price for living my truth. But every moment out of the darkness of that closet, is worth it. I’ve been rewarded with renewed purpose, a loving community of transgender people, and the joy of being able to be wholly myself everywhere I go. I came out of the closet relatively late in life, at the age of 39. I stayed so long because I couldn’t see a future in which I could be myself and still survive. When I finally came out, I lost friends and family members. I faced lack of employment - An inability to find housing - Fear - Harassment - Isolation.

I bet on myself, and that bet has paid off. And I’ll keep betting on myself as I keep fighting for the equality and dignity of all people.

Coming out of the closet isn’t safe for everyone. Nobody should allow the hubbub around this day to make them feel like they are less important. We don’t owe our deepest hearts to anyone. I want every LGBTQ person to be safe in whatever way that looks.

Those who choose to open their closet door deserve support in this act of power and vulnerability. They deserve to be welcomed by their families, friends, neighborhoods, communities, employers and the whole wide world - fully, with open arms and no reservations - to be seen as the whole persons that they are.

On National Coming Out Day, take a moment to let the community know that you are a safe person in which to confide. Post a message of support to your social media account. Tell your own story of coming out. Let our friends who aren’t yet in a place to make that leap know that they have value.

Let’s get to work building a world where nobody needs a closet for anything other than clothes.

 

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A Constitutional Law Forum discussion with Ken Falk and special guest on the Supreme Court's recently concluded term and its future.

This event is open to current law forum members.

Recently, ACLU events have been heavily attended; there is a possibility that space will be limited, so please RSVP at your earliest convenience to Neil Hudelson.

For more details about joining the Constitutional Law Forum click here, or contact Neil Hudelson at or 317-759-6421 or nhudelson@aclu-in.org.

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At a time when the fundamental right to vote has increasingly become a partisan pawn, deep-seeded misconceptions surround who can and cannot vote, specifically as these rights apply to people who have been previously incarcerated.

“I would have voted, but I didn’t know I could.” At the American Civil Liberties Union of Indiana, we get calls like this after every election. It is devastating. My hope is that every Hoosier owns their power and exercises their right to vote. But you can’t use your rights, unless you know your rights.

Voting restrictions for people who have been previously incarcerated vary from state to state, leading to confusion, mass-misinformation and misapprehension. The problem is broad. Even those working in re-entry organizations or in elected offices confess they don’t know the voting laws well enough to share accurate information. Election laws are governed by the individual states, and some are deeply rooted in Jim-Crow era policies. For example, in Vermont and Maine, individuals who are incarcerated never lose their right to vote, while in Florida and a few other states, millions have permanently lost their right to vote.

So, let’s clear this up: Indiana is one of 15 states (including D.C.) where people who have been previously incarcerated, can vote upon release. Individuals lose their voting rights only while incarcerated, and receive automatic restoration upon release. Individuals on parole, probation, home detention, or people who are in jail awaiting trial, can vote. Yes. You can vote.

The restoration of the right to vote upon release back into the community, gives individuals an opportunity for reengagement and a chance to be full members of our democracy. It is the type of engagement we should be encouraging as a society.

Unfortunately, scare tactics in a few states and clouds of uncertainty in every state, keep previously incarcerated individuals away from the polls. In states such as North Carolina and Texas, where individuals’ voting rights are restored only after they have completed their parole or probation programs, we have recently seen a weaponization of the ballot box by a handful of prosecutors. Individuals have been prosecuted for voting fraud, even though these individuals honestly believed they had the right to vote upon release from prison. When people who have been previously incarcerated hear these stories, it leads to confusion about their rights, and fear of prosecution and further jail time. Voting just doesn’t seem worth the risk.

Indiana had the lowest midterm voter turnout in 2014 with just over 28% -- and the 14th lowest voter turnout in the 2016 presidential election with turnout just over 56%. These rates suggest that Indiana does not have a voter fraud problem, we have a voter turnout problem. As a part of our obligation to engage all citizens in our democratic institutions, Hoosiers share the responsibility to inform individuals who have been released from jail or prison -- over 25,000 in 2016 and 2017 alone -- of their right to vote.

Barriers to the ballot exist beyond Indiana. In addition to states that restrict access to the ballot for people who are formerly incarcerated, since 2008, states across the country have passed measures to make it harder for Americans—particularly black people, the elderly, students, and people with disabilities—to exercise their fundamental right to cast a ballot. These measures include cuts to early voting, voter ID laws, and purges of voter rolls.

While election integrity is a critical component of a successful democracy, our country must balance election laws with the need to make voting accessible to all. Making voting too difficult or too scary is not the answer. As the 2018 midterm elections approach, the ACLU of Indiana is working tirelessly to share this message with Hoosiers: Yes! You can vote. If you have been previously incarcerated, have a disability, are a college student, are transgender or have been recently naturalized – you can vote!

 

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